Send My Love to Anyone

Send My Love to Anyone

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While I didn’t have wild expectations, I did have some low-bar desires like readers not FUCKING HATING MY BOOK.

Words Count | My Adventures in Book Publicity Part 2 | Mindset

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Kathryn Mockler
Mar 16, 2025
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My Adventures in Book Publicity

Mindset

A Loser Before I Got Out of the Gate

I stated in Part 1 that my goal for my book was connection and that kept me grounded, but I’m not dead inside!

Obviously, on some level, I did want people to like the book or else why bother to write work for an audience and publication?

While I didn’t have wild expectations, I did have some low-bar desires like readers not FUCKING HATING MY BOOK.

The reason I was able to keep focused on connection and not external validation throughout the publicity process is that three terribly disappointing things happened before the book came out.

The Goodreads/Net Galley Reviews

The first one was my fault.

In the lead up to the pub date, I did what everyone tells you NOT to do: I read the Goodreads and NetGalley reviews of the book.

Dear reader, they were not nice.

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